I often wish the scar on my
abdomen were not so unattractive. My youngest son, Seth was 10 lbs 11 oz and
had to be taken cesarean section. Because of his size the incision was
vertical rather than horizontal. Many years later due to a benign tumor, that
same incision would be reopened. It is a significant scar but I’ve come to the
realization that everything we face in life and all of our experiences are
framed with perspective. I can choose to
focus on how unattractive this scar is and feel ashamed or I can choose to focus
on the fact that this scar resulted in producing the life of an amazing young
man that I adore. This same scar reminds
me that God was faithful at a very scary time in my life when doctors were
certain something terrible would be found in my body. In addition, I have another scar on my neck that
is a result of my battle with cancer. These scars share a common thread, they
all tell a story and they are all framed by the way I choose to view them. They
tell a beautiful story of God’s faithfulness and His promise to never leave nor
forsake me. Everything we face in life has
the potential to serve as a memorial of God’s faithfulness or our resignation
to defeat.
I have an entire list of things from the Bible that I wish to NEVER hear the Lord say to me. Along with Matthew 7:21-23 when the Lord says, "......depart from me you worker of iniquity. I never knew you....", the following passage is right up there at the top of that list: The passage (Matthew 23:27) reads like this in the New King James: “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which indeed appear beautiful outwardly, but inside are full of dead men’s bones and all uncleanness." In The Message it reads: "You’re hopeless, you religion scholars and Pharisees! Frauds! You’re like manicured grave plots, grass clipped and the flowers bright, but six feet down it’s all rotting bones and worm-eaten flesh. People look at you and think you’re saints, but beneath the skin you’re total frauds." I have been pondering this verse as of late for many reasons and have had some life experiences ...
Connie, you have such a beautiful way of putting your thoughts into words and getting the message across. I pray that everyone who reads this will be blessed by it's meaning.
ReplyDeleteThank you Beth. I pray it ministers to others as well. <3
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